Holder's Civil Forfeiture Runaround: One Step Forward, Three Back

Hey, so remember how amazing it was that the DOJ was going to change rules regarding siezed asset sharing between states and feds in order to cut down on US citizens being shaken down on the regular, despite not even being charged with a crime? That was a hopeful moment. But it's being replaced by something at least… » 2/27/15 11:01am Today 11:01am

I had the reverse problem. The woman I hired (friend of a friend) to make sure tables were getting cleared, candles got lit at dusk, things were going as they were supposed to, etc., brought a date. Who wore dirty jeans and an unbuttoned shirt over a ribbed tank top. She spent most of the evening sitting in the… » 2/26/15 9:37pm Yesterday 9:37pm

One of my very good friends is very good friends with a celebrity. As a courtesy to her celebrity ex-husband, she let him know that she was going to be announcing her engagement at a particular time on a particular day. On the morning of the scheduled announcement, he announced that he'd secretly gotten married the… » 2/26/15 7:36pm Yesterday 7:36pm

Personally, I think it's a mistake to expect perfection from yourself, or therapy. It's also cool to just, you know, be happy with where you are and sit there for a while. If you decide you need to go back, you can. I just started again after a three year break, after a really productive couple of years, but for… » 2/19/15 10:02pm 2/19/15 10:02pm

I gotta agree with everyone else. It doesn't really matter if he's sleeping with her — the bottom line is that YOU aren't happy with the status quo and this relationship isn't giving you what you need. You can break up with him or you can be direct about what you want — that means knowing what you want — and see if… » 2/19/15 8:11pm 2/19/15 8:11pm